AI Prompts for How to Use Claude for Dating Apps

I want you to interview me to gather the specific information you need to write a dating profile that sounds genuinely like me. Ask me questions one at a time. Focus on things that are unusual, specific, or unexpected, not generic things like "what are your hobbies" or "describe yourself." After you have asked 6 to 8 questions and I have answered all of them, tell me: (1) which 3 details about me are the most profile-worthy and why, (2) which answer surprised you most and why it stands out, (3) what single angle about me I should build my profile around. Then ask me if I want to continue to the writing phase.

I want an honest read of what my current dating profile tells a stranger about me in the first 10 seconds. Here is my profile: Bio: [PASTE]. Hinge prompts and answers (if applicable): [PASTE]. Photo descriptions: [DESCRIBE WHAT YOUR PHOTOS SHOW]. Platform: [TINDER / HINGE / BUMBLE / BADOO]. Tell me: (1) what impression someone forms before they have read a single word, (2) what the bio communicates that I probably did not intend, (3) what is generic enough to appear on hundreds of other profiles, (4) what is working and should stay. Be direct. Do not soften the critique.

Based on everything I am about to tell you, identify the one angle that should run through my entire dating profile and explain why. Here is information about me: What I do: [DESCRIBE]. Where I am from or have lived: [DESCRIBE]. Something unusual about my life or background: [DESCRIBE]. What I actually spend my time on (not what sounds good, what is true): [DESCRIBE]. What I want from dating apps right now: [DESCRIBE]. What I am bad at that is not a humble brag: [DESCRIBE]. From all of this, tell me: what is the single most interesting, specific, and matchable thing about me? How should that angle show up in my bio opening, in a Hinge answer, and in how I write first messages? Give me a concrete example of each.

I want to send a first message to someone I matched with and I want your help analyzing their profile before I write anything. Their profile: Name: [NAME]. Bio: [PASTE OR DESCRIBE]. Hinge prompts and answers: [PASTE IF APPLICABLE]. What their photos show: [DESCRIBE]. What genuinely caught my attention when I saw it: [DESCRIBE SPECIFICALLY]. Now tell me: (1) what is the most interesting or specific thing in their profile that almost no one would comment on, (2) what is likely getting overused as an opener by other people matching with them, (3) what does their profile tell you about what they are actually looking for, (4) what question or observation would make them think this person actually read my profile. Use this analysis to suggest 3 specific opening lines.

I want to understand what my photo lineup is actually communicating and what it should be communicating instead. My current photos: Photo 1: [DESCRIBE: SETTING, WHAT YOU ARE DOING, EXPRESSION, WHO ELSE IS IN IT]. Photo 2: [DESCRIBE]. Photo 3: [DESCRIBE]. Photo 4 (if applicable): [DESCRIBE]. Platform I am focusing on: [TINDER / HINGE / BUMBLE / BADOO]. What I want my profile to communicate overall: [DESCRIBE: E.G., ADVENTUROUS AND FUN / PROFESSIONAL AND INTERESTING / WARM AND GENUINE]. Tell me: (1) what story my current photos tell when someone looks at all of them together, (2) which photo should be first and why, (3) what type of photo is missing that would make the lineup stronger, (4) what I should remove and why. Be specific about each photo, not general.

Write a dating profile bio for me. I am going to give you specific, honest information and I want you to write something that sounds like I said it out loud to a friend, not like I typed into a template. My details: What I do (honest version, not the LinkedIn version): [DESCRIBE]. How people who know me well would describe my personality: [DESCRIBE]. One thing about me that surprises people when they find out: [DESCRIBE]. One thing I genuinely believe that most people might find weird: [DESCRIBE]. What I am actually hoping for on this app: [DESCRIBE]. Platform: [TINDER / HINGE / BUMBLE / BADOO]. Write 3 bio versions under 150 words each. Each should use a different opening move: one starts with the surprising thing, one starts with a scene or moment that shows who I am, one starts with an honest statement about what I want. None should begin with "I" and none should include "loves to laugh," "easygoing," "adventurous," or any trait listed as an adjective without a specific example.

Write answers to these Hinge prompts for me. I want answers that feel like only I could have written them, give someone something specific to comment on, and avoid the most common tropes. My personality and facts: [DESCRIBE: HUMOR STYLE, KEY THINGS ABOUT YOUR LIFE, WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR, SOMETHING SPECIFIC THAT HAPPENED RECENTLY]. Write answers for: "The most spontaneous thing I have ever done," "I want someone who," "The way to win me over is," "A life goal of mine," "Worst idea I have ever had," "Two truths and a lie." For each prompt give me 2 versions: one that is funnier or more unexpected, one that is more genuine and vulnerable. Each answer under 60 words. After writing all of them, tell me which 3 you think are strongest and why.

Edit this dating profile bio. Remove every phrase that could appear on hundreds of other profiles, every trait listed without evidence, and every sentence that tells someone nothing specific about me. Bio: [PASTE YOUR CURRENT BIO]. For each thing you remove, tell me exactly why it is generic and what a specific replacement would look like. Then give me the full rewritten version. The final bio should feel like only I could have written it. If you need more specific information from me to replace the generic parts with something real, ask me targeted questions before finishing.

I want you to write my entire dating profile as one cohesive package so that my bio, my Hinge answers, and my opener style all sound like the same person. First, ask me 4 or 5 specific questions to understand my personality, what makes me interesting, and what I am looking for. After I answer, write: (1) a bio under 130 words, (2) answers to 3 Hinge prompts that complement the bio without repeating it, (3) 2 example first messages written in my voice that I could use to open conversations. At the end, explain what the connecting thread is across all three pieces and why everything should feel consistent.

I want my dating profile to attract a specific type of person and make the wrong people self-select out, without me listing requirements like a job posting. Who I actually want to match with: [DESCRIBE: PERSONALITY, WHAT THEY CARE ABOUT, WHAT THEIR LIFE LOOKS LIKE, WHAT THEY WANT FROM DATING]. Who is wasting my time right now: [DESCRIBE]. What I am willing to be honest about in my bio: [E.G., THAT I WANT SOMETHING SERIOUS / THAT I HAVE A KID / THAT I TRAVEL CONSTANTLY FOR WORK / THAT I AM AN INTROVERT]. Write a bio that draws in the right person and lets the wrong person know this is not a match. The filtering should feel like honesty and confidence, not a checklist. Under 150 words.

Write a first message to this person. I want it to sound like I actually read their profile, not like I am using the same opener on everyone. Their profile: Bio: [PASTE OR DESCRIBE]. Hinge answers (if applicable): [PASTE]. What I noticed when I saw their profile: [DESCRIBE SPECIFICALLY]. My personality: [DESCRIBE]. Write 3 openers: (1) references the most specific or unusual thing in their profile and asks a real question, (2) responds to something they wrote with a genuine observation or reaction, (3) is slightly unexpected but still grounded. None should be longer than 2 sentences. None should start with "Hey," "Hi," or a compliment on their appearance.

I had a conversation with a match that was going well and then fizzled. I want to restart it without seeming desperate or weird. The conversation history: [DESCRIBE WHAT WAS SAID OR PASTE THE LAST FEW MESSAGES]. How long it has been quiet: [TIMEFRAME]. What I know about them: [DESCRIBE]. Write 3 restart options: (1) references something specific from what we talked about and asks a natural follow-on, (2) brings up something new and timely, (3) is brief and honest about the fact that the conversation drifted. Tell me which timing works best for each and what to avoid.

I want to suggest meeting up with this match. I want to do it in a way that feels natural and confident, not abrupt or needy. Our conversation so far: [DESCRIBE OR PASTE THE LAST FEW MESSAGES]. What I know about them: [DESCRIBE]. Platform: [TINDER / HINGE / BUMBLE / BADOO]. Write 2 ways to transition to suggesting a date: one that follows naturally from something we talked about, one that is direct and confident without being intense. Include the exact message text for each. Also tell me: at what point in a conversation it makes sense to suggest meeting up and how to read whether it is too early.

I want you to analyze my messaging style in dating conversations and tell me what I am doing that creates momentum or kills it. Here is how I typically message: [DESCRIBE: E.G., I REPLY VERY FAST, I WRITE LONG PARAGRAPHS, I ASK LOTS OF QUESTIONS, I JOKE AROUND A LOT, I TEND TO GIVE ONE-WORD ANSWERS WHEN I AM NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY]. Here are examples of conversations that went well: [DESCRIBE OR PASTE]. Here are examples that fizzled: [DESCRIBE OR PASTE]. Tell me: (1) what patterns I am repeating in the conversations that went nowhere, (2) what I do in conversations that work, (3) the specific thing I should change starting with my next conversation. Be specific about my actual patterns, not general advice.

I just had a first date and I want to send a message afterward. How the date went: [DESCRIBE: E.G., IT WENT REALLY WELL / IT WAS OKAY / I AM NOT SURE HOW THEY FELT ABOUT IT]. How long ago the date was: [E.G., I JUST GOT HOME / YESTERDAY]. What we talked about or did: [BRIEFLY DESCRIBE]. What I want to happen next: [DESCRIBE]. Write 3 post-date messages: (1) warm and genuine, references something specific from the date and suggests seeing them again, (2) shorter and lighter, plants the seed for a second date without stating it directly, (3) a kind message to send if the date was not what I hoped. Tell me what timing works best for each.

Help me figure out where my dating app results are breaking down and what to fix first. My situation: Platform(s) I use: [LIST]. Swipes or profile views per week: [NUMBER OR "I DO NOT KNOW"]. Matches per week: [NUMBER]. Conversations that go past 3 messages: [NUMBER]. Dates from the app per month: [NUMBER]. My profile: [DESCRIBE BRIEFLY]. Tell me: (1) which stage my results drop off most, (2) whether the problem is most likely my profile, my photos, my messages, or my conversation style, (3) what a realistic goal looks like over 30 days if I fix the right thing, (4) what I should change or test first and what success would look like.

I have written two versions of my dating profile bio and I want your honest judgment on which is better and why. Version A: [PASTE]. Version B: [PASTE]. Tell me: (1) which is stronger and why, (2) which specific phrases or sentences are the best in each version, (3) what the weaker version is doing wrong, (4) whether there is a combined version that would be stronger than either. Be direct. I want your actual judgment, not balanced feedback.

I want to test changes to my dating profile systematically so I can tell what is actually working. My current profile: [DESCRIBE]. What results I am getting now: [DESCRIBE]. What I suspect might be the problem: [DESCRIBE: E.G., MY BIO IS TOO LONG / MY PHOTOS ARE NOT SHOWING ME AT MY BEST / MY OPENERS ARE TOO GENERIC]. Build me a testing plan: (1) what specific thing to change first and why, (2) how long to run the test before evaluating, (3) what metric to use to know if the change helped, (4) what to try next if the first change does not work. Make this a practical sequence I can actually follow.

My dating profile has been the same for a while and my results have slowed down. I want to refresh it without starting from scratch. My current profile: [PASTE OR DESCRIBE]. What has changed since I wrote it: [DESCRIBE: E.G., NEW JOB, MOVED CITIES, ENDED A RELATIONSHIP, GOT NEW PHOTOS]. What my results look like now: [DESCRIBE]. Tell me: (1) what is most dated or no longer accurate, (2) what is still working and should stay, (3) what a meaningful refresh looks like versus a superficial one, (4) whether this is a profile problem or a messaging problem based on what I have described. Then give me the refreshed version of each section.

I want to know whether the dating app I am on is still the right one for me or whether I should switch. My situation: Platform I currently use most: [NAME]. How long I have been using it: [TIMEFRAME]. My results: [DESCRIBE: MATCHES PER WEEK, QUALITY OF CONVERSATIONS, WHETHER I HAVE GONE ON DATES]. My age and general location: [DESCRIBE]. What I am actually looking for: [DESCRIBE]. Compare Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and Badoo for someone in my specific situation. Tell me: (1) whether my current platform is the right fit for what I want, (2) which platform I should consider switching to and why, (3) what I should not do (common platform-switching mistake), (4) whether my issue is the platform or my profile and messages.